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A Passing Amongst Us

“Of all the wonders that I yet have heard,
It seems to me most strange that men should fear;
Seeing that death, a necessary end,
Will come when it will come."
~William Shakespeare

The inevitability of death still does little to lessen the sting when that eventuality comes too soon or too suddenly. Mighty Joe Young has asked me to let you all know that his wife passed away today.

She was known here on the site as Not You. She was one of us; therefore she is part of us. Long may her tale be told.

26 comments Posted 2009-09-09 Author: THX 0477

Comments

  • Stovohobo

    Eloquent Mess made a memorial challenge for her here:
    http://ficly.com/challenges/274

    I’m just kind of in a daze right now.

  • B. Booth

    MJY, you’re in my thoughts.

  • blusparrow (LoA)

    Love you jesi <3 you will be dearly missed. rip my dear friend and realitive at heart. i know she would want us all to know how much she loves us and wants us to live life to the fullest.

  • ElshaHawk (LoA)

    here here!

  • Elisabeth L. Davis(LoA)

    “Don’t cry. Crying’s not cute. Be cute.” ~ Jesi

  • BA Boucher

    I’ve been off site for a while now and only saw that she was sick today. I’m shocked and MJY will be in my prayers tonight

  • SaveTheUnicorns

    I’m so sorry!

  • uselessness

    Thanks for posting this here, THX. Truly a sad, sad day. :-(

  • mama murph (LoA)

    I never knew Jesi personnally but I have read her work and know from it she was a brilliant thinking person. She and her stories will be missed dearly and my heart calls out to you Joe, for your safe and comforting healing. May peace be with you soon.

  • Wyatt Aapr LoA

    MJY, I am saddened to hear of your wife’s passing. I have lost a child, both parents, and several cousins and uncles. You will have to pass through the three steps of grieving before your mind will be at peace. My prayers are with you.

  • April Raines

    That… sucks. MJY – thoughts are with you, and hugs, and… things words cannot begin to cover.

    It seems the universe has a new muse. Bye, Jesi.

  • Alexa Reed (LoA)

    I know this news, and yet it still makes me sad every time I read it.
    I just want it to stop making so sad. I can’t even tell people why I’m sad.

  • Lone Writer

    We’ll all never forget her, that’s for sure. I’m praying for you MJY. We love both you and her.

  • Pyropunk 51 (PPP LoA)

    jezi your spirit will live in all of us.

  • ethelthefrog

    Rest in peace. My prayers are with you and yours.

  • Kevin Lawver

    Just so you all know, we’ve sent a fruit basket to MJY on behalf of the entire Ficly Family. I hope what I put in the card represents all of our feelings:

    “When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.” — In the time words fail us, know that we’re thinking of you and praying for your comfort. Love, the Ficly Family.

  • ALRO613 (LoA)

    Very classy gesture Kevin… a great message indeed.

    May she be at peace, and may Eddie find peace in our little community here…

  • Ana Cristina

    This has affected me on a level that has surprised even me — I never spoke directly to Jesi, but her writing spoke to me. I felt I connected with her, at least on that level. I’m not even sure she knew who I was, but I definitely knew and respected her talent. She will be missed.

    Thank you, Kevin, for sending that thoughtful gift on our behalf! I agree with Alro, that was very classy indeed.

    Eddie, we are here for you always.

  • blusparrow (LoA)

    thank you kevin

  • Raegan Dauterive

    Aww, that’s so sad. She was my second follower, and her writing was very unique.
    Thanks Kevin for sending the fruit basket on our behalf, that’s a very kind gesture.

  • Textual Phoenix

    I think if anyone ever wonders why I consider Ficly to be a family, I’ll direct them here to read the comments. Let’s face it. Do you think posters on, say, YouTube would react like this?

  • Oy

    Wow… I don’t know what to say… My thoughts echo those above me…

  • penguincaptain

    I’m so sorry. This deeply saddens me and my thoughts and prayers go to MJY. It is beyond difficult to lose someone, let alone someone so close. Kevin, thanks for that gesture.

  • K-Jellybean

    I think that because none of us ever really knew Jesi, we only saw her writing, her passing affects us even more deeply. Her writing touched us all in one way or another and she became a dream to us. She was the one that helped us after a boyfriend left or when our parents yelled or if we just needed a pick-me-up. It’s a different tale for everyone, but Jesi really did reach us and for that, her passing is a sorrow unlike others.

    Jesi will always be remembered as innovative, fun, quirky and the one that wasn’t afraid of sounding like a dork. Jesi was everything we could all hope to be. She was a Stargirl in mind and an angel at heart and now she has taken her place with the rest of all the best people in history.

    I’m sure that she’s having tea with Abe Lincoln and Billie Holiday right now and telling them that she hopes people don’t forget about her. She’ll always be in our hearts <3

  • Marli

    Thank you Kevin for the thoughtful gesture. My thoughts echo all the words before me.

  • Andrew_Gatlin

    Been away a while. So sorry to hear this. MJY is in my thoughts.