I have lived in South Haven, Michigan since I could remember.It was a generally upper-middle class city.I was not exactly rich however.I came from a relatively loose catholic family.We were relatively acceptive of other religions and political views.I loved my family.I had my birth father John and his husband Gaston, they were very loving.I saw my mother, Adalina, every weekend.She was single and was very proud to be.She’s a very big feminist, and she liked taking me to her meetings so that I wouldn’t turn into “one of those chuvanistic pigs that run the country”.My parents got divorced, when I was three, after my father came-out.My mother was hurt, however she recovered eventually.