I know how you feel. I am reminded of the caterpillar “Who. Are. You?” from Alice in Wonderland. You need to take time for yourself, do things that please you and no one else, to find a balance. part of being there for others is that you never let your own walls down, your own secrets out, and people do not really know you. It’s a defense mechanism as well as a crutch. I’m guilty of this!

A very personal piece and well written also. I hope you dont mind if added a sequel, I was suddenly inspired to add my own after reading.