Knowing that this girl, who is one of my dearest friends, was in some sort of trouble I felt compelled to help her. So i asked her, “What’s the problem?” She replied, “I don’t know, my boyfriend hasn’t called me and it’s really making me upset.” I’m thinking in my head, “Well that boyfriend of hers is a real douchebag for not calling her,” but i realized that I am also going through the same process with my girlfriend.

This girl and I discussed what the problem was with our signficant other….and we both came up with the same reason for it. We tell one another that we should just stay strong ans keep a smile on our faces. Nothing should tempt us to dial our boy/girl friend and figure out this problem. We decide to just lay back and let them come to us.